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Your Legacy

What is the greatest legacy you could pass on to your children and grandchildren?

Lavish Christmas presents? Money? Property? Investments? Family name? Social or business connections?

Nope. None of these items is guaranteed to bless others. In fact, all of these things could become a snare or a stumbling block if your children don’t know how to handle them wisely.

Your greatest legacy is the wisdom you have accumulated over the course of your life. Especially your wisdom on how to love God, discipline yourself and serve others.

So here’s a question that you don’t want to ignore until you’re on your deathbed: what have you done to make sure that the essence of your wisdom–the sum of your life experiences–will be fully and accurately passed down to your children? To your grandchildren? To relatives and friends who respect you and would benefit from your accumulated wisdom and experience.

Don’t assume that just because you’ve said something dozens of times it will stick in your children’s memories. (How long do you remember other people’s words?)

So here’s an idea … something that would make an unforgettable Christmas gift and a powerful way to inspire personal growth in the new year: write out a statement of your most important life lessons and principles and share it with those you love.

To get you started, here is a list of 121 wisdom principles that Corlette and I compiled for our children and grandchildren as our most important gift to them: Our Legacy – Principles We Pray Our Children and Grandchildren Will Embrace [1].

We hope this list will encourage you to compile your own insights to pass on to those you love. If you find principles on our list that you embrace, please feel free to use them on your list (here is a Word version [2] you can use as a template).

Even if your children don’t appreciate all of your values today, there will come a time when they will see them through different eyes—eyes that have been opened by age, experience and the Holy Spirit. When that happens, they will thank God that you took the time to preserve and pass on to them your greatest legacy … your personal compilation of relational wisdom.

“For wisdom is better than jewels, and all that you may desire cannot compare with her” (Prov. 8:11).

– Ken Sande

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© 2017 Ken Sande

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