What Is Relational Wisdom?
Relational wisdom, in essence, is the desire and ability to obey Jesus’ timeless command, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart … and love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:37-39).
In modern terms, relational wisdom may be defined as your ability to discern emotions, interests and abilities in yourself and others, to interpret this information in the light of God’s Word, and to use these insights to manage your responses and relationships successfully.
Life Is All About Relationship!
Jesus’ Parable of the Talents reminds us that relationships are precious gifts that he entrusts to us as opportunities to show his love and multiply the number of people who will enjoy him forever (see Matt. 25:14-21).
Six Relational Disciplines
From Genesis to Revelation, Scripture teaches us how to be faithful to God, discipline ourselves and serve the people around us.
This teaching may be summarized as six relational skills or disciplines: God-awareness and God-engagement, self-awareness and self-engagement, and other-awareness and other-engagement.
If we neglect these disciplines, our lives are often characterized by aimlessness, shallow relationships and conflict. But when we cultivate these disciplines, we are more likely to enjoy deep friendships, intimate marriages, joyful parenting, fulfilling careers and, most importantly, a compelling witness for Christ.
Training materials are also available in a “values-based” form that is suitable for use in businesses, hospitals, schools, military bases and other secular settings.
Versatile Principles
Relational wisdom is an “operating system for life” that is being used in churches, ministries, businesses, schools and seminaries around the world.
Training Clients Include
“Peacemakers Are People Who Breathe Grace.
Inspired by the gospel, they draw continually on the goodness and power of Jesus Christ, and then they bring his love, mercy, forgiveness, strength and wisdom to the conflicts of daily life.”
From The Peacemaker
Meet Our Team
Ken Sande is the founder of Peacemaker Ministries and Relational Wisdom 360. Trained as an engineer, lawyer and mediator, Ken has conciliated hundreds of family, business, church and legal conflicts. He teaches globally and has written numerous resources on building relationships and resolving conflict, including The Peacemaker, which has sold over 500,000 copies in twenty languages.
Going Beyond Emotional Intelligence
Relational wisdom is a God-centered, biblically-grounded, gospel-driven form of emotional intelligence.
RW360 Blog
Practical, biblical insights for developing stronger relationships, valued influence and a compelling witness.
Overcoming Rejection
There are three things you and I were never designed to experience: illness, death and rejection. That is why these experiences feel so foreign and hurt so much: they are utterly contrary to what we were made for. When God created the world, everything in it was “very...
One Simple Habit that Transforms Relationships
One of the best ways to improve your relationships is to develop the habit of drawing attention to EGGs. Not the ones you cook or search for at Easter, but the innumerable Evidences of God’s Grace that he lavishes on you and those around you ... and calls you to...
How to Resurrect a Dead Relationship
A young Christian couple came to my office just before Easter one year and asked me to mediate the legal issues of their divorce. The wife had been unfaithful, and their relationship had been shattered. They had argued, excused and blamed for a couple of weeks and...
Reconciling Two Stubborn Scientists
How would you feel if God enabled you to use simple relational skills you learned at church to solve a million dollar problem for your employer? That’s exactly what a woman named Diane did when she stepped in to resolve an employee conflict that had stumped her...
Web Based Training
Study relational wisdom with your friends in an interactive, online group
A Flexible, Convenient and Interactive Way to Learn
Innovative, continuing-ed approved ways to build stronger relationships and “get upstream of conflict.
Study Anywhere
Study privately or with a group, using your computer, smartphone, tablet or a TV in your living room.
Dynamic Learning
Teaching and demo videos, Bible study, interactive discussions and online quizzes.
Set Your Own Pace
Work any time of the day or week at a pace that suits your schedule, with no pressure or deadlines.
Skills for Real Life
Practical exercises help you apply enhanced relational skills in your home, church and workplace.
Grow Together!
Improve the relational skills of your entire church, ministry, school or business
Host A Webinar, Seminar or Group Study
Our most popular live training formats are a 3-hour webinar and a 3-hour in-person seminar, both of which provide an introduction to the principles taught in our longer online course, Discovering Relational Wisdom 3.0.
This CEU-approved training includes interactive teaching, demonstration videos, small group discussions and practical applications, with each student receiving a full scholarship to the entire online course. Instructor training fees range from $750 to $4,900, depending upon the instructor and type of event. Per student costs range from $15 to $49.
This training is also available for group study via DVD, flash drive and web streaming for use in Sunday school and small groups. The eight lesson set includes teaching and demonstration videos, 10 study guides and summary pamphlets, and a Leader’s Guide.
Christian Conciliation Service
Resolving business, legal, family, church, ministry and school disputes
Do You Need Help with Conflict?
Our Certified RW Conciliators™ have been cross-trained in relational wisdom, biblical peacemaking and Christian conciliation. This combination of skills gives them the ability to provide biblically grounded conflict coaching, mediation and arbitration for marital, church, ministry, school, business and legal conflict.
A Promise Worth Pursuing
“Get wisdom, prize her highly, and she will exalt you” (Prov. 4:7-8).
Apply Relational Wisdom to Every Area of Life
Our teaching videos cover dozens of theological issues and practical life applications.
Gospel Driven Peacemaking
Resolving Everyday Conflict
Living At Peace
Start Setting an Example Today!
“Practice these things, immerse yourself in them, so that all may see your progress” (1 Tim. 4:15).
Action Steps
Three ways below to begin improving your relational skills today … starting with a free smartphone app with hundreds of articles, videos and FAQs on relational wisdom and biblical peacemaking.